3 things to do in September.

Yesterday I offered you 7 options of things to do to be helpful in August. They were simple things, designed to be doable in a short time. I heard from several of you about ways that you followed up. For example, a bunch of you watched Brian’s video about waiting and some of you even commented. (On […]

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7 ways to be helpful at the end of August.

If you look at the calendar, you see that it’s September tomorrow. I wanted to offer you things to do before you say, “where did the summer go?” 1. Write down three things in the last month that made you smile. I mean literally take a writing tool and on paper, write three words or […]

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One of you at a time

As I was out walking the other morning, I was thinking about you. I mean the generic internet you, I suppose, the whole world of people who might read my words (and certainly won’t). But I mostly mean the you who choose to subscribe to what I write and the you who probably don’t read these […]

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“I’m so glad we had these six months.”

That’s what the woman said to her sister, talking about the time they’d had since the diagnosis until now. It was a time of clarifying what mattered to them, about putting arrangements into place, about tying up loose ends. I kind of laughed when she said it. Not loud enough for her to hear. I […]

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